Let me correct you about certain assumptions your question seems to be making: In today's environment, "fault" is not necessary to prove against the other spouse to get a divorce. In other words, infidelity, cruelty, abandonment etc., does not have to be plead or proved to get a divorce, and frankly most lawyers do not … Continue reading If giving up custody of my two children to my husband can I go back in several years and try to get custody?